How do i get the “repeat for each instance”
I checked thru each condition for the object and just every condition in general, i also searched for it, made a new object to see if there was something wrong with the object
Click on this image 
on the top right in the events editor,
or right click on the "Add a new event" at the bottom left of the events. These will bring up this options menu, and create a new event:
thank u so much, i thought it was a condition!